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Work Your Subconscious Mind – The Real Reason Why People Succeed (Great Video)

A Great Video: Malcolm Gladwell on why people really succeed.

The secrets of success can be decoded—and copied and reconstructed. In his stunning new book, the bestselling author of The Tipping Point and Blink reveals the real—and mostly overlooked—secrets to extraordinary success. As in his earlier books, Gladwell builds his case with stories of real people, brilliantly told from an all-new perspective. He reveals that we pay far too much attention to what successful people are like, and too little attention to where successful people are from: their culture, their family, and their generation. Gladwell explains what Bill Gates, the Beatles and other world-class successes have in common, how culture affects their careers and performance, why some cultures are good at math and what drives the so-called achievement gap in American education. Along the way, Gladwell overturns many of our conventional notions about what makes a person successful. He creates an entirely new model for nurturing success and suggests ways to give people the best opportunities to succeed. Because we so profoundly personalize success, we squander human potential. We miss opportunities to lift others onto the top rung.

Concentrate on Personal Success!

 

The next time you watch a baseball game, notice how intently the pitcher stares at the catcher before delivering the pitch. Or, when you are at a concert or watching one on television, observe how the performers glue their eyes on the conductor to ensure starting right together. The pitcher and the musicians are using concentration to do exactly what is needed to perform their best. Concentration is one of the keys to success; it is an absolute essential to high performance.

Intense concentration improves your performance and releases the power of your mental potential, no matter what you are doing. Just as you use only a small fraction of your physical abilities, you habitually make use of only a small portion of your brain capacity. You can be reasonably successful when you use only a fraction of your ability, but you can perform even better if you concentrate and tap some of your unused power.

Everyone can improve concentration. Even though concentration begins with a simple decision to concentrate, it takes practice and it may not be easy at first. Take these steps to improve your ability to focus your mental powers and concentrate:

Relax. When you are nervous, worried, or “keyed up,” your body cannot perform at its best. Before you begin any important activity, take deep rhythmic breaths until your body is relaxed. Explore other methods of relaxation to discover what works best for you.

Try this concentration exercise. Picture in your mind a blackboard in a classroom with a single number written on it. Concentrate on this number for a while, then imagine beside it another digit, and then add a third. Continue adding digits until you are no longer able to hold together the picture of the new largest number. A book from your local library can give you further suggested exercises for improving your power of concentration.

Learn how to tune out distracting influences. Practice the art of ignoring distracting noises and sights. To begin, try to tune out television commercials, street noises, and other distractions. The ability to eliminate distractions will prove valuable to you when you must perform at your best.

Make concentration a habit. Discipline your mind when you are doing important work. Concentrating on everything you do makes it easier to focus your thoughts on reaching your important goals. Concentration can boost your performance to levels higher than you ever thought possible!

By: Paul J. Meyer

Be Your Own Boss – At any age!

 

My 9 year-old daughter recently decided to start her 2nd business with the assistance and guidance of her business partners.  She is quite business savvy and her creativeness is out of this world; look for her on the cover of Forbes in the next 20-30 years!  She and I have been doing some research and we thought we should share with the world what we found!

Did you know there are 7.2 million businesses owned by women in the United States today and they make $1.2 trillion a year in sales.  Being your own boss is the ultimate promotion and most exhilarating experience! So what does it take to make this move read on!

  • Were you born to be your own boss?

Being your own boss is not for everyone! Here are a few questions to ask yourself: Are you a risk taker? Do you like to be in charge of your own time? Are you the person people turn to for solutions or to lead tasks? If you answered YES, then your are ready to rock and roll! Need some resources to get started, go to www.sba.gov that will provide guidance on how to get started – and its free! :)

  • Write your goals down! Otherwise they are just wishes!

If you do not write your goals down, they are just wishes, PERIOD!  You do not need to have a 100-page business plan, and goals are a must!  How else will you know you have reached a milestone and are ready to move onto the next level?  We suggest making 30-day, 60-day, 90-day, 6-month and 3 year goals. At the end of each time period, re-evaluate and reset goals if needed based on current situation. This will assist you staying on task and organized!

  • Patience

This is the tough one (for me at least) and as humans because we live the life of instant gratification!  Not everyone comes out of the gate making lucrative money!  If you are working a full-time job, hang in there until the nest egg has been built!  As previously blogged here, save at least six months worth of living expenses.

  • Business Partner

We all would like to think we can do everything alone!  And if anything I have learned as a mother, I am NOT superwoman all the time (even though I think I am) and there are times when I need some assistance.  Having a complementary business partner is key, treat your business relationship like a personal “relationship”. Your business partner needs to be strong, when you are weak and vice versa.  You must feed off of one another, complement one another and soon your team will be golden!

  • Online Presence is vital!

In this day and age, with Twitter, Facebook, Foursquare, YouTube, etc.. Everyone and I mean everyone will need to create an online presence.  How else would you reach the customers of the world – from the comfort of your couch?  Of course, you will want to check out your competition, set yourself apart from them and conquer the online world!

Here are some famous women entrepreneurs:
Mary Kay Ash
Anita Roddick
Oprah Winfrey
Madame C.J. Walker
Debbie Fields
and many many many more!

Read. Read. Read.  The more you read, the more you learn!  Find a mentor and get them to brain dump on you!  Ask them valuable questions, and learn, grow, and cultivate!

Sang D

Sang D is currently running her home-based business part-time while working full-time in the construction industry. She has been mentored by top leaders in several industries as well as mentored young ladies through her volunteer work as a Girl Scout Leader. Sang is truly passionate about providing others with the resources they never knew existed.

Sang holds an MBA in Marketing and International Business as well as a Bachelor of Science in Criminal Justice. Upon graduating college, she discovered that law school was not what she was passionate about and went on a self-discovery mission. After losing her hero, her mother, in 2005, Sang shifted her focus on spending more quality time with her family. Thus, she began her quest for entrepreneurship.


Facebook? LinkedIn? Twitter? And now Google+? Where is the personal connection?

 

Where has all the attention gone?  TV watching is down yet the attention has been redirected to our computers, laptops, cell phones, iPads, etc.

Here are some ways to control the balance:

Schedule your correspondence. If you are like me, you can be inundated with emails all throughout the day and thus can instantly change your mood.  To curb this instance, try reading, checking, and responding only at certain times of the day.  About 30 minute intervals should do the trick.  Delete anything that is older than two weeks or stuff it in a folder because, let’s be real, you are not going to reply.  Unsubscribe to newsletters you are not reading, or if they are important to you, filter those messages to skip the inbox and go directly to a folder.  And this one may be the hardest one for everyone – set your computer and mobile devices NOT to notify you when you receive new mail!

Choose not to answer. Think of your mobile device as a debit card, the more attention you give it, the more money you lose. Your smart phone has many capabilities and you can customize calls to receive and not to receive.  Practice leaving your phone for about 20 minutes at a time, I mean there was a time when we did not depend on having a phone at all times and besides, not everyone needs to know what you are doing.  Do your best to schedule your phone calls during your drives and please use your hands-free devices!

Face to Face time is needed. When you are meeting with someone, do not let the temptation of your computer and/or phone distract you from the person who is right in front of you.  Not only is it rude to tamper with your devices, you are not created that important connection needed to build a relationship for the future!  Maintain eye contact with your client, friend, etc and give them your undivided attention, their time is valuable as well!

Keep in mind that everyone is busy and everyone is attached to the mobile devices and laptops as if it gave them air to breathe.  Sometime you need to step away from the technology world and take a breath of fresh air, live life and remember what is most important in life.

Sang D

Sang D is currently running her home-based business part-time while working full-time in the construction industry. She has been mentored by top leaders in several industries as well as mentored young ladies through her volunteer work as a Girl Scout Leader. Sang is truly passionate about providing others with the resources they never knew existed.

Sang holds an MBA in Marketing and International Business as well as a Bachelor of Science in Criminal Justice. Upon graduating college, she discovered that law school was not what she was passionate about and went on a self-discovery mission. After losing her hero, her mother, in 2005, Sang shifted her focus on spending more quality time with her family. Thus, she began her quest for entrepreneurship.

Tips on Networking: Networking is an Art Form!

Networking is an art form.  So many people want to know how to meet someone they have an interest in, or they want to learn how someone has become who they are in life.  The key to networking is being real.  This sounds so simple, but most people do not apply this.  People truly want to feel like someone cares.  As humans we always want to be loved, liked, and accepted.  This concept applies to everyone, including the biggest names in business.

The first thing is having confidence.  Business people can feel if someone believes in themselves and their products.  I have seen products by products, I do not care, as an businessman, to look at documentation unless the party involved believes in themselves.  Confidence needs to be applied well beyond business.  Most people do not want others to see who they are as a person.  Instead, they want others to view them in the way the general public looks at them.  Why would someone do this, or want to do this?  It comes down to value.  People look at value in many different ways.  For example,  if I am by someone who I know could change my life, than I might feel threatened because of my own insecurities.  Insecurities and assuming come hand in hand.  Look around you and ask yourself, how many times have you changed your look, your approach to someone, because you assumed something that was not there?

This concept is truly important in any form of communication.  So many people are constantly bombarding CEOs and Presidents of corporations for contacts or money. This never works.  The best way to prove to others you are real is letting them see for themselves, by body language.  I like what one of my friends says, ” Behavior never lies”.  Let’s say they did not have money or contacts, would you still care for them the same.  I would say no, due to general behavior statistics more than 80% would give up on someone because they would not see value in the person.

This leads to the mindset of instant gratification.  Let’s look at the mindset of most network marketers in the world today.  I see people selling products, joining do to the hype and wanting overnight success and riches.  People want to instantly become rich, because of the value that they believe this could bring to their given lives.  Why would someone do this sort of behavior?  On the economy side of things, people do what is showed to them.  We as Americans are overwhelmed by advertisements, but I am here to tell you this approach of business will never work.  This will lead to taking tons of time, money, and getting hurt by folks that know how to play this game with you.

Let’s go and counteract this view on life, and look at the whole picture.  I always tell people to always make sure you are getting equal or more value.  This avoids just looking at something for yourself, but now you are looking out for others.  Know that business deals come and go, but friendships can last forever.

Remember relationships take time and trust is one of the most important things to have.  Do not chase anyone. This is my philosophy on life.  Chasing only shows that you are desperate.  If someone has no interest in your product, your business opportunity, or you, they will show you by their behavior.   I have had this happen to me daily and I will tell you chasing is away to get people to doubt you.  Beyond doubt, chasing brings drama and no confidence.  Get the mindset of your worth.  I have people chasing me on a daily basis and all that does is show who they are as a person.  Do not do this to yourself.

A great way to avoid the chase is to talk to people about things, other than business.  Get to know them for them.  No one closes a deal by themselves without any help.  It does not matter who the person is, there is always someone helping.  This is important to realize that it’s okay to ask for help in closing a deal.  Successful people ask questions, so feel free to ask the investor, business CEOs, upline Leaders, those who have already succeeded and all others for advice.  This shows humility to everyone else.

Here is one of my best tips on the subject of networking:
Remember your only as strong as your database, so make that database worth your time and effort.

BONUS!!!!!!!!!

5 Reasons WHY you need to Keep Networking!

Referrals: Given the current economic conditions, getting a Job or doing business by referral is bigger today than it’s ever been in the past. Even if you do have a job or a business that is going great, you can’t always predict the future. If the rug gets pulled out from under you unexpectedly, it’s good to set yourself up for a soft landing. Continual networking will enable you to build a group of contacts that could be potential referrals for your next role and help you speed up the process of finding your next gig or next business opportunity!

Potential Business Partners: If you are an entrepreneur or not, networking well lead to a number of potential business partners.  For example, let’s say you are a salesperson and you meet somebody who needs the exact product you are selling.  The relationship you establish at a networking event could make the difference in who that new customer makes his or her purchase from.  If your an entrepreneur looking for opportunities to collaborate, a contact you meet at a networking event could open that door for you.

Income: In his book, The Luck Factor, Brian Tracy said that he could actually measure his income in proportion to the number of people he knew.  Every time his network of contacts doubled his income doubled.  The reality is that you are going to need the help of other people no matter what your long term goal is.  The more contacts you have in your network, the more resources you have available to you when it comes to reaching your goals.

Lend a Helping Hand: If there’s one thing you should do if you are networking and already have a job or business, it’s to lend a helping hand.  Let’s say you meet somebody who is looking for a job in a particular field or starting up a business. After you meet that person you might meet another who is looking to hire somebody that matches the background of the  first person or partner up with them in business as well.  By providing somebody with that referral you are going to form a very strong lasting relationship.  There is a law of reciprocation that makes people feel compelled to return such favors.  In that moment when you need a helping hand, it’s highly likely that your gesture will not be forgotten and that person you did a favor for will do everything they can to help you.

Make new friends: One of the other things I enjoy about many of the networking perks is the opportunity to make new friends.  Once you are on a friendship level with somebody, the likelihood that they will want to help you out in your business efforts will increase dramatically. As adults we often get too caught up in sticking to what we know.  But, if we can keep growing our social circles, this will lead to even more opportunities for personal and business success.

Just because you have found a job or are doing well in business, it’s not time to stop networking. In fact, if anything, it’s time to take it the next level. You now have another valuable asset that you can utilize to give tremendous value to the network you are building. Let’s Get to Networking!!!!!

King Dobson, The Master Networker

Network Marketing: An Income Generating ASSET

It’s no wonder so many people don’t understand the value of network marketing: Many of those who are actually involved with it themselves don’t fully grasp the value of what they hold in their hands.

When people go to hear network marketing presentations, often their main question is, “If I join this business, how much income can I earn here?” And no surprise, when you listen to people promote their network marketing business, often that’s exactly what you will hear them talk about: how much you can earn on a per-month basis. But that’s not where the REAL VALUE of network marketing lies.

The problem with earning income is that it’s an incredibly limited, linear process.  Work an hour, earn a dollar: work two hours, earn two dollars.  It depends on you, which means you can never stop.  As I said before, it’s a trap.  Most people instinctively sense that, but they assume that the way out of the trap is to earn more income.  But earning more income doesn’t change the basic fact of being tied to your income.  In fact, often earning more income only serves to draw the noose tighter.

The Power of Passive Income!!!!!

Have you ever used one of those spring loaded water faucets that some public restrooms install to save water?  When you turn the water on, you have to hold the faucet there, because when you let go, it bounces back to the off position.

Most people’s income source works just like that faucet: You get a little money flowing, and then when you let go, it bounces back to off.  You can never build freedom that way.   What you want is a money faucet that you can let go of once you’ve turned it on, because it stays on by itself.

It’s not just about having income today, tomorrow and next week; it’s about securing your income in perpetuity.  This is passive income, also known as residual income: income that continues coming in, over and over, long after you finished expending the effort and capital it took to create the source of the income.

If you own a restaurant, you earn income ONLY when you prepare and sell a meal. If your business fixes air conditioners, you earn income ONLY when you provide that service. Even high-salaried doctors and lawyers earn money ONLY when they see patients or clients.  If no patients or clients require their knowledge and services in a particular week, the income faucet springs shut again and there’s no money coming in that week.

How to Know Your Asset from a Hole in the Ground.

An asset is something that works for you, so you don’t have to work for the rest of your life.  My poor dad always said, “Work for a Job.” My rich dad said, “Build Assets.”

In our Rich Dad business, we have offices throughout the world.  Whether I’m working or sleeping or playing golf, the checks come in.  That’s passive income: residual income.  While I won’t work hard for a job, I’ll work really hard to build an asset, simply because I think like a rich person, not like a working class person.

Because owning a business is owning an asset, when you build a network marketing business, you’re not only learning critical life skills, you’re also building a genuine asset for yourself.  In a job, you earn income.  In network marketing, instead of earning income, you build an asset—–your business—– and the asset generates income.

I only invest in things that make me money.  If it makes me money, it’s an asset; if it takes money from me, it’s a liability.  I have two Porsches. They’re liabilities.  I own them free and clear, but they’re not putting money in my pocket; they’re taking money out of my pocket.  It’s not rocket science.

For people who understand this, the No. 1 asset is usually a business, and the No. 2 asset is typically real estate.  And even with real estate, you have to understand the difference between cash flow and capital gain.  Most people don’t understand this distinction.  When they invest, they invest for capital gain.  They’ll say, “My house went up in value.  My car went up in value.”  That’s capital gain, not cash flow.

The purpose of owning real estate is to keep it as an asset, not to sell if for a profit.  If you buy a piece of real estate for $100,000 and then sell it for $200,000, that’s not an asset; you just generated a $100,000 capital gain.  You had to shoot the asset to get that money.  You’ve killed the asset.  It’s like selling your cow for money.  I’d rather own the cow and sell the milk.

This is the biggest problem with having a job: A job is not an asset.  You can’t sell it on eBay, you can’t rent it out, you can’t take dividends from it.  Why spend decades, the best years of your life, working away to build something that is not an asset? Or, to put it more accurately, to build someone else’s asset, but not your own? Because make no mistake about it: When you work at a job, you are building an asset–it’s just not your asset.

We’ve had this idea drilled into us that there is some sort of inherent value in having a good job, but there is absolutely no value in it–zero.  And to add insult to injury, the income from your job is then taxed at a higher rate than any other form of income.  Talk about the deck being stacked against you!!!

Network Marketing Is Not About Selling Products or Earning Income!

The biggest popular misconception about network marketing is that it’s a selling business.  But Selling is just earning more income.  The problem is, if you stop the activity, the income stops.  That’s not going to build your Wealth or your freedom.

In network marketing, the whole point is not to sell a product but to build a network, an army of people who are all representing that same product or service to share with others.

The goal is not for you or any other individual to sell alot of product; it’s for a lot of people to be their own best customer, sell and service a reasonable number of customers, and recruit and show a lot of other people how to do the same thing.

And here’s the reason you want to build that army of independent representatives: Once you do, you know what you’ll have?  An asset that generates income for you–passive income.  Network marketing is not about earning more income; it’s about building an asset.

The Power of Your Own Network!

One of the first things that intrigued me about this business model when I started looking into it seriously in the 1990s was the simple fact that it used the word network. I remembered that my rich dad really respected this term.  My rich dad told me, “The richest people in the world build networks.  Everyone else looks for work.”

From the shipping magnates and railroad barons to Sam Walton, Bill Gates, and Jeff Bezos, the great fortunes of the world have been made by those who figured out how to build networks.  Sam Walton didn’t manufacture goods for people; he built the distribution network that delivers the goods.  Bill Gates didn’t build computers; he built the operating system that ran on those computers.  Jeff Bezos didn’t go into publishing books; he created the online network Amazon.com that delivers those books.

The power is not in the product; the power is in the network.  If you want to become rich, the best strategy is to find a way to build a strong, viable, growing network.

Of course, most of us are not Thomas Edison, Sam Walton or Bill Gates, and never will be.  Yes, there will be handfuls of remarkably creative pioneers in every generation who create new multi-billion dollar networks from scratch, as these men did, but it’s not a reasonable ambition for tens of thousands of people, let alone millions.

That’s why network marketing is so brilliant.  The companies that make up the network marketing industry now offer millions of people just like you the opportunity to build their own network rather than spend their lives working for someone else’s network. By Robert Kiyosaki-SFH..

What Others Say About Network Marketing

Tom Peters, the legendary management expert and author of the classic best-seller In Search of Excellence, describes network marketing as “the first truly revolutionary shift in marketing since the advent of ‘modern’ marketing at Proctor & Gamble and Harvard Business School over 50 years ago.”

Today, network marketing is recognized by many experts and accomplished businesspeople as one of the fastest-growing business models in the world.

The emerging success of network marketing has been written about in such journals as Forbes, Fortune, Newsweek, TIME, U.S. News & World Report, USA Today, The New York Times and The Wall Street Journal. Fifteen years ago, you couldn’t have gotten a single one of these journals to give this business the time of day.  Now, look at what a recent issue of Fortune said about network marketing:

“An investor’s dream… the best kept secret of the business world… an industry with steady annual growth, healthy cash flows, high return on invested capital, and long-term prospects for global expansion.”

Warren Buffett and Richard Branson couldn’t be more different.  Buffett drives a pickup and lives in Omaha; Branson flies his own airline and lives on his own island in the British Virgin Islands.  But they have three things in common.  They are both billionaires.  They are both extremely practical men.  And they have both owned network marketing companies.

Does that tell you something?

Citigroup, Jockey, L’Oreal, Mars, Remington and Unilever: Guess what they all have in common?  They’ve all put a toe in the network marketing water—in some cases, right up to their hips.

Today, network marketing is recognized by many experts and accomplished businesspeople as one of the fastest-growing business models in the world.

 

The Deadly Virus that Infects Network Marketing

There is a deadly virus that is affecting our profession and preventing people from maximizing their productivity. This virus…interestingly enough, DOES NOT affect the top two or three producers in every network marketing company. In fact…they are immune to it. Watch this video and find out why:

If you are involved in network marketing and have a sincere desire to make it to the top and not be average, then you better pay attention to what is delivered in this video. There is not one single person on this planet that is operating at the very top of any compensation structure that suffers from this virus. This message is clear. Pay it forward. Feel free to share.

By: Todd Falcone

Inspirational Song by Chris Brown – “Dreamer” – 2008 Beijing Olympics

Are you Chasing your DREAMS? These are what DREAMS are made of—-Driving Relentlessly Everyday to Accumulate Massive Success!! – King Dobson…… Meet you there!

Inspirational Song By Mary J. Blige – Stronger

For some reason this video always inspires me whenever I see it or hear it, so I wanted to share it on my website… Enjoy!

The Qualities of Skillful Leadership

If you want to be a leader who attracts quality people, the key is to become a  person of quality yourself.  Leadership is the ability to attract someone to the gifts, skills, and opportunities you offer as an owner, as a manager, as a parent, etc.  I call leadership the great challenge of life.

What’s important in leadership is refining your skills. All great leaders keep working on themselves until they become effective. Here are some specifics:

  1. Learn to be strong but not rude. It is an extra step you must take to become a powerful, capable leader with a wide range of reach. Some people mistake  rudeness for strength. It’s not even a good substitute.
  2. Learn to be kind but not weak. We must not mistake kindness for weakness.  Kindness isn’t weak. Kindness is a certain type of strength. We must be kind enough to tell somebody the truth. We must be kind enough and considerate enough to lay it on the line. We must be kind enough to tell it like it is and not deal in delusion.
  3. Learn to be bold but not a bully. It takes boldness to win the day. To build your influence, you’ve got to walk in front of your group. You’ve got to be willing to take the first arrow, tackle the first problem, discover the first sign of trouble.
  4. You’ve got to learn to be humble, but not timid. You can’t get to the high life by being timid. Some people mistake timidity for humility. Humility is almost a God-like word. A sense of awe. A sense of wonder. An awareness of the human soul and spirit. An understanding that there is something unique about the human drama versus the rest of life. Humility is a grasp of the distance between us and the stars, yet having the feeling that we’re part of the stars. So humility is a virtue; but timidity is a disease. Timidity is an affliction. It can be cured, but it is a problem.
  5. Be proud but not arrogant. It takes pride to win the day. It takes pride to build your ambition. It takes pride in the community. It takes pride in cause, in  accomplishment. But the key to becoming a good leader is being proud without being arrogant. In fact I believe the worst kind of arrogance is arrogance from  ignorance. It’s when you don’t know that you don’t know. Now that kind of arrogance is intolerable. If someone is smart and arrogant, we can tolerate that. But if someone is ignorant and arrogant, that’s just too much to take.
  6. Develop humor without folly. That’s important for a leader. In leadership, we learn that it’s okay to be witty, but not silly. It’s okay to be fun, but not foolish.
  7. Lastly, deal in realities. Deal in truth. Save yourself the agony. Just accept life like it is. Life is unique. Some people call it tragic, but I’d like to think it’s unique. The whole drama of life is unique. It’s fascinating.  And I’ve found that the skills that work well for one leader may not work at all for another. But the fundamental skills of leadership can be adapted to work well for just about everyone: at work, in the community, and at home.

 

By: Jim Rohn

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To Your Success,

King Dobson

 

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